This post has been published by me as a part of the Blog-a-Ton 33;
the thirty-third edition of the online marathon of Bloggers; where we
decide and we write. To be part of the next edition, visit and start
following Blog-a-Ton. The theme for the month is 'Celebrations'
CELEBRATION where is it..!! Do you people think still we celebrate
festivals. Or there is celebration in festivals. I don't think so.
(many of u would not agree with me.). Ya i can say we celebrate
parties.. but its not original celebration. I know time has changed. So
how we celebrate also changed.. Ya i can say we celebrate parties on
every weekend but where is celebration from heart or with whole
combined family.
Some of you think i am negative person but here is some point which
forced me to think about it... please bear with me....!!
1. Best start of celebration is with sweets ( KUCH MITHA HO JAYE )
but now days everywhere we see or hear that sweets is no pure.. Lacs of
kilos duplicate MAVA sealed during festivals still do u think v can
celebrate or hurting our health...!!
2.. Celebration means happiness. But in today era this celebration
means tension. inflation increase day by day.. For celebration need
money.. But in india many people don't have money to eat then how they
celebrate ( this point not apply to all) some person may say we can
celebrate without money ( but most probably they are trying to say lie
to them self )
3 Formalities.. Everyone have there own style of celebration.. But
family and society force people to behave like as they want. Therefore
we have to comply formalities.. That is burden not celebration.
4 wishes : without wishes and love celebration is not complete. But
think once when we give wishes to someone or someone gives wishes to
us we mean that...??? ( some time its very true but not all time..) we
wish them not by heart but just because we have to wish that's why we
wish..
5. Last but not least Enjoy.. But now day meaning of enjoyment changed
many people think drinking bear/wine or taking drugs is name of
enjoyment. But they never think about it how they hurt family,, friends, other peoples
after that. Heard many cases on new year so called celebration nights.
Above point are just to prove my point of view where TRUE celebration
is.!! Many more point may be in this list.
Bur after all people try to celebrate and in festival country like
india every day is celebration. But original celebration is not only
on Diwali new year etc it will be when we are truly happy.. When
there is no any pain in heart .. When our half of country (means
woman) will get original freedom when only drinking bear is not
celebration.when whole family together But this day will come or not i don't know.
So celebrate after all we are part of this so called society..
So happy Diwali to all...!! (hmm duplicate or by heart think u..)
Thank you for bear with me
disclaimer- this is just my point of view and only for contest . If
i hurt by words anyone i am sorry for that. But it is not for hurt anyone or
there feelings.
My note- All people who read it wish you all happy Diwali and enjoy be safe.
Thanking you
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All your points are valid in today's parlance, agree that for many the word celebration mean differently, yet they can not be set as benchmark... Good Post... Happy & Safe Deewali :)
ReplyDeleteThank u so much for commenting .. And agree with my point... I am new in blog world so thanks fr appriciated me..!! Wish u same happy and safe diwali. All d best and plz keep visiting my blog
DeleteA very different view on celebration. To me celebration is not only associated with festival but also with surmounting small challenges in life. Getting over the fear also call for celebration or celebrating the excitement of a kid looking at the rainbow. Million such example.Good post. Provide different perspective on celebration.
ReplyDeleteThank u so much for commenting .. Ya ur example is vry vry right.. For me also celebration is nt only festival.. U put nyc example and i also feel that.. For me big celebration is getting over fear. But this is festival season and for contest i want to put my this view. I am new in blog world so thanks fr appriciated me..!! Wish u happy and safe diwali. All d best and plz keep visiting my blog
Deletehmmh.. an interesting argument. Yeah, you are right to certain ambiguous degree. but then, I would like to wish you a very warm and happy festival season -- just for the sake of the warmth that it gives me. And hey, May be all the darkness around is in-fact to provide a perfect background for the fireworks.. Cheers. Best of luck for BAT.
ReplyDeleteHmm i am glad you like my post. I am fan of your blog you write so well. Thank u so much for commenting .. And agree with my point... I am new in blog world so thanks fr appriciated me..!! Wish u same happy and safe diwali. All d best and plz keep visiting my blog
DeleteToday celebrations have become a platform for showing off for many & splurging unaccounted wealth for some.The media adds to this unhealthy trend.Any way Happy Diwali to all!
ReplyDeleteHey indu.. Really grt to see you here.. Thank u so much for commenting .. Ya today festival celebration is just so off . thanks fr appriciated me..!! Wish u same happy and safe diwali. All d best and plz keep visiting my blog. I just can say JEETE RAHO
DeleteI really enjoyed reading what you have written Jitendra.
ReplyDeleteMay be because I feel likewise. I so so so agree!!
It is very ironical how the younger/coming generation(including me) interprets "Celebration".
But it is never to late, an eye-opening take on 'Celebration' like yours can inspire a lot ..
All the very best for BAT 33 :)
I am so glad MEGHA..that you enjoyed reading my post and thank u so so so much fr agree with my point and u feel it is motivtional best compliment for my writing. TI am new in blog world so thanks fr appriciated me..!! Wish u same happy and safe diwali. All d best and plz keep visiting my blog
DeleteYou are most welcome dear :)
DeleteHmm :):)..keep visiting:)
Deletevery true, i feel this is not a negative post but an effort to make the actual celebration a positive experience... people seem to have forgotten the real meaning of celebration. Good luck for BAT :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for comenting... And i am glad u feel that it is positive post...and u r ryt people forgot true celebration... All d best
Deletehappy and safe diwali..:)
keep visiting my blog for more post
the red color of the words itches the eye !!
ReplyDeletecould not thus complete reading it !!
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Hmm thanx for try to read it... And sorry to problem fr u in reading next tym i will tak care of it... Keep visiting
ReplyDeleteCelebrations are a part of life. Good luck with the contest.:)
ReplyDeleteI am really glad that u visited and commented on my post I am big fan or WORDS.... ya celebration is part of life but mean of celebration changed.. Thanks for visiting and plz keep visiting
DeleteHAPPY DIWALI :)
a different take...good one
ReplyDeletea very happy Diwali to you too :)
ATB for BAT :)
Yeah.. I am happy you found it.. Diffrent and good.. Thanks fr commenting and visiting.. Keep visiting.. All d best u too..
DeleteHappy diwali
very thoughtful insights..
ReplyDeleteHey parsoon.. Thanks for visiting and comenting... Happy diwalu
ReplyDeletekeep visiting
Valid points.
ReplyDeleteWould have enjoyed the post more if it was not in RED!!
Hmm thanks to visitong and commenting...!!! Ya this is problem.. Red colour word.. Will tack care nect time.. Thanks to agree with me... Plz keep visiting
DeleteYa colebration meaning change... Thanks for visiting and commenting... Wish u happy diwali all d best
ReplyDeletekeep visiting:)
I do not agree with a lot of the things you have to say so please forgive me for that...
ReplyDeleteI am not a very religious person - I do enjoy festivals but that is more because they give me an occasion to spend some time with my family :) You had mentioned that "formalities" kill celebrations - well, formalities are all a part of tradition and even if they don't make sense anymore, doing rituals together only brings people together (it does not matter if you don't feel it from the heart..the fact that you are being forced to do it primarily because it shouldn't hurt others' sentiments is a good enough reason to be grateful...You actually did something you thought was utterly ridiculous just for the sake of another person!)
I enjoy Christmas, New Year primarily because it is a festival that I can spend with friends - usually, Diwali and Holi are festivals that require a person to be more with the family than with friends...I do not see the harm in drinking - a few unfortunate incidents that happen - for that why blame the alcohol? Blame the fact that law is not being implemented properly...
And what is the big deal about getting wishes? It reminds me of the time when we had Friendship Day in fifth standard where we all wanted a friendship band so we wished everyone who was giving out pretty friendship bands Happy Friendship Day hoping to get a pretty band back in return :P
I think celebrations are just extensions of celebrating our own individual selves in this vast maze of social interactions. And a part of yourself is not limited to only you as a being..It extends to all other areas of life...
And if parties are a grand way of showing the celebratory spirit, I don't think it should be judged. Culture is something that keeps changing and there is no "Indian culture" that people keep talking about :) Just accept that times change and each era is just as good or as bad as the previous one and move on!!
Hey divya 1stly thanks a ton u visiting nd commenting here.. Keep visiting i need ur support.
ReplyDeleteNow hey plz dont say that forgive u.. Its ur view u dont aggry with me.....
Hmm thats grt u enjoyed festival with ur frnds nd family... I didnt say that alcohal is harmfull but sometime its creat prblm in celebration..
Nyc points u gave to me to change my maind i have to think abt it.. Thanks.. Enjoy keep writing and visiting